Counseling & Therapy Services in Belleville IL

ADD/ADHD Counseling
We all know children who struggle to sit still, have difficulty listening, or blurt out comments at the wrong time. Some may not follow instructions, no matter how clearly they are given.
While it’s normal for kids to occasionally forget their homework, daydream in class, or act impulsively, persistent inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity can be signs of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). ADHD affects a person’s ability to control their natural responses, from movement and speech to emotional reactions.
Children with ADHD present in different ways. Some may be constantly on the move, disrupting those around them, while others might sit quietly, seemingly detached or distracted.
The primary characteristics of ADHD include inattentiveness, hyperactivity, and impulsivity, though not all children display all three traits equally.
Children with ADHD may:
- Struggle to stay focused or become easily distracted
- Seem not to listen, even when spoken to directly
- Fidget, squirm or appear restless
- Talk excessively or interrupt conversations
- Act without thinking about the consequences
- Say things at inappropriate times
- Show frustration easily or have a quick temper
When left untreated, these symptoms can create challenges for children and their families. Difficulty focusing or managing impulses can lead to struggles at school, trouble making friends, and feelings of frustration. Over time, these challenges may affect self-esteem and family dynamics.
The good news is that treatment and support can significantly improve ADHD symptoms. With the right strategies and interventions, your child can thrive and achieve success in all areas of life.
If you’re interested in learning more about therapy for ADHD, I invite you to reach out for a free consultation. Together, we can explore ways to help your child overcome challenges and reach their full potential.
Anger Management
When you’re angry, do you find yourself resorting to name-calling? Do you feel frustrated when asked to open up and share your emotions? Are you often impatient? Have your family members or children expressed fear about approaching you?
It’s not easy to admit when anger becomes overwhelming, especially when it begins to hurt the people we care about the most.
If any of these situations resonate with you, it might be time to explore anger management therapy.
Anger management therapy has been shown to be effective for individuals facing various challenges, including:
- Violent tendencies or behaviors
- Bullying behaviors
- Behavioral changes resulting from traumatic brain injuries
- Emotional regulation difficulties associated with posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
- Substance dependency or those navigating recovery
- Cognitive or mental health conditions that impact anger control
Anger issues are more common than many realize, and acknowledging the problem is a courageous first step toward change. Managing anger isn’t always simple, but with the right support, strategies, and a plan tailored to your unique needs, it’s entirely possible to regain control.
If you or someone you care about is struggling with anger management, reach out today for a free consultation. Together, we can develop a path toward healthier emotional expression and improved relationships.


Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a short-term, goal-oriented form of therapy that focuses on identifying and breaking unhelpful patterns of thought and behavior. By helping people distinguish between their beliefs, thoughts, and feelings, CBT empowers them to adopt healthier ways of thinking and responding to life’s challenges.
The foundation of CBT lies in the idea that it’s not the events we experience but our perception of those events that shape how we feel and behave.
CBT can be beneficial for addressing the following:
- Depression
- Anxiety
- Panic attacks
- Phobias
- Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD)
- Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
- Substance dependency
- Chronic pain
- Disordered eating
- Sexual difficulties
- Anger management issues
Many individuals facing clearly defined emotional or behavioral challenges experience significant improvement through CBT. If any of the above resonates with you, CBT might be a helpful path forward.
Through CBT, you’ll work to adjust the thought patterns that directly influence your emotions and actions. This process, called cognitive restructuring, is achieved through specific techniques such as:
- Journaling
- Challenging unhelpful beliefs
- Practicing relaxation and meditation
- Engaging in mindfulness exercises
- Performing social, physical, and cognitive activities
CBT is more than just talking about your feelings. It’s a structured, collaborative approach in which each session is designed to help you progress toward your goals. This focus ensures that every session is productive and meaningful.
If you or someone you know could benefit from cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), please don’t hesitate to contact me. I’d be happy to discuss how CBT might help you or your loved one achieve lasting positive change.
Conflict Resolution
Are you the parent of a teenager, finding it challenging to maintain peace at home?
Do you struggle to navigate disagreements with your boss or co-workers?
Do arguments with your partner feel like they never resolve?
Conflict resolution therapy can help you cope with challenging situations by guiding you toward solutions as you work through conflict. Conflict is a natural and unavoidable part of life, whether in personal or professional relationships. It’s unrealistic to expect two people always to agree, but it’s equally normal for conflict to feel overwhelming or unhealthy when it arises. Since disagreements are inevitable, learning to approach them in positive and constructive ways is essential.
Sometimes, after an argument with a friend, partner, or colleague, you may avoid the other person to “keep the peace.” You might hope that the issue will resolve itself over time. However, avoiding conflict or pretending it never happened can create additional tension, leaving the problem unspoken and unresolved.
The next time a disagreement arises, lingering anger or resentment from the unresolved conflict may surface, making it even harder to reach an understanding. Conflict resolution therapy teaches you to view disagreements as opportunities to grow, strengthen your relationships, and develop healthier patterns of communication. You’ll learn how to manage stress, control emotions, and focus on resolving issues constructively.
If you:
- Struggle to get along with a co-worker
- Find it hard to agree with your spouse on important matters
- Have an argumentative friend or family member
- Want to learn how to “fight fair” with your partner
- Need help managing your emotions during disagreements
- Seek healthier, more effective ways to express your needs
Conflict resolution therapy can provide the tools you need.
We’ll help you identify the root causes of conflict and work toward resolutions that strengthen your relationships. You’ll learn to focus on solutions instead of resorting to blame, shutting down, or holding onto resentment.
Conflict resolution therapy will also empower you to recognize that while you can’t control the actions of others, you can control your response.
If you’re facing challenges at work, at home, or in your relationships, conflict resolution therapy can equip you with the skills to handle any situation. Contact our office today to schedule an appointment. Let’s work together to build healthier, more fulfilling connections.


Counseling for Anxiety
Is anxiety taking over your life? Does it feel like no matter how hard you try, you can’t get it under control? Have you tried therapy before but found it unhelpful?
If this sounds familiar, I’m here to help. My practice offers proven, effective treatments designed to provide you with the relief you deserve from anxiety.
Research shows that therapy is often the most effective approach for treating anxiety disorders. Unlike medication, which focuses primarily on alleviating symptoms, anxiety therapy addresses the root causes of your distress, offering lasting solutions.
Common symptoms of anxiety include:
- Nervousness, restlessness, or tension
- Feelings of danger, panic, or dread
- Rapid breathing or hyperventilation
- Increased or excessive sweating
- Trembling or muscle twitching
- Weakness or fatigue
- Difficulty focusing or thinking clearly
- Insomnia
- Obsessions or repetitive thoughts, which may indicate obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD)
- Anxiety tied to a past event or experience, which may suggest post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
Therapy can help you:
- Identify and address the underlying causes of your anxiety
- Learn relaxation techniques to calm your mind and body
- Reframe situations in a way that feels less overwhelming or frightening
- Develop practical coping mechanisms and problem-solving skills
You don’t have to navigate anxiety alone. Therapy can provide you with the tools and support needed to regain control and find peace.
If you’re struggling with anxiety, I encourage you to reach out for a free consultation. Together, we can work toward a future where anxiety no longer holds you back.